Understanding Dementia: Insights from Dr. Tay Hui Sian

 

Event Recap: "Can You Find My Grandfather? He Is Missing: Everything You Need to Know About Dementia"

"To care for those who once cared for us is one of the highest honors." - Tia Walker

In Malaysia, the rise of dementia cases is a growing concern. Recent statistics reveal that approximately 50,000 Malaysians are currently living with dementia, a number expected to triple by 2050. This alarming increase underscores the urgent need for awareness, early diagnosis, and effective management of this condition.

Last Sunday morning, 14th July, 2024,  at 11 am, at Wesley Methodist Church, Tengkera, Melaka, we had the privilege of attending a highly informative and engaging talk by Dr. Tay Hui Sian, a renowned Geriatric and Internal Medicine Consultant from Pantai Hospital, Melaka, Malaysia, Titled "Can You Find My Grandfather? He Is Missing: Everything You Need to Know About Dementia," the session shed light on the alarming growth of dementia patients in Malaysia and aimed to raise awareness about this critical health issue within our community.


Pastor Danny bestowed a heartfelt gift of appreciation upon Dr. Tay, honoring her with gratitude and recognition for her invaluable contributions

The Alarming Rise of Dementia

Dr. Tay began by highlighting the increasing prevalence of dementia in Malaysia, emphasizing the urgency of addressing this growing concern. The risk factors contributing to dementia were outlined as follows:

Risk Factors for Dementia:

1. Increasing age (1 in 14 people over 65, 1 in 6 over 80)
2. Family history of dementia
3. Female gender
4. Low socioeconomic status and less education
5. Social isolation
6. Alcohol and smoking
7. Physical inactivity or obesity
8. Depression and anxiety
9. Hypertension, diabetes, hypercholesterolemia, Parkinson's disease, subdural hematoma, Vitamin B12/folate deficiency
10. Hearing and vision impairment

Importance of Early Diagnosis

Dr. Tay emphasized the significance of diagnosing dementia early. She explained that problems with memory and cognition might be caused by treatable conditions such as Vitamin B12 deficiency, thyroid dysfunction, recurrent hypoglycemia, anxiety, and depression. Additionally, causes of confusion could stem from poor sight or hearing, emotional changes, side effects of certain drugs, or combinations of drugs.

How is Dementia Diagnosed?

Diagnosing dementia involves a comprehensive approach, including:

1. Detailed History: Assessing the onset, duration, and impact of symptoms on daily living from both patients and caregivers.
2. Physical Examination and Blood Tests: Conducting tests (FBC, biochemical profile, LFT, HbA1c, lipids, TFT, B12, Folate) to exclude other possible causes of symptoms.
3. Mental Ability Tests: Evaluating language, memory, and thinking skills using tools like the MMSE and MOCA.
4. Imaging Tests: Utilizing CT or MRI head scans.

Behavioural and Psychological Symptoms of Dementia

As dementia progresses, patients often experience changes in behavior and feelings, which can be more distressing than memory loss. These symptoms can significantly affect both patients and caregivers, leading to high caregiver stress, with one-third developing depression. Dr. Tay advised against blaming patients for their behavior and highlighted that symptoms could come and go over time.

Common Symptoms:

1. Delusions and hallucinations
2. Agitation and aggressive behavior
3. Wandering and restlessness
4. Anxiety and depression

To assess the causes of behavioral and psychological symptoms of dementia (BPSD), Dr. Tay recommended using the PINCH ME mnemonic:

• P: Pain
• I: Infection
• N: Nutrition
• C: Constipation
• H: Hydration
• M: Medication
• E: Environment

Complications of Dementia

Dementia affects multiple body systems, leading to complications such as malnutrition, pneumonia, urinary tract infections, inability to self-care, safety challenges, and increased risk of bedsores, constipation, or thrombosis due to long-term bed rest. Advanced dementia can eventually lead to coma and death caused by infections.

Aims of Dementia Treatment

Dr. Tay outlined the primary goals of dementia treatment:

1. Maintaining longer independence and activities of daily living.
2. Providing relief from distressing behavioral symptoms.
3. Preserving cognitive performance.

Available Treatments

While there is no cure for dementia yet, treatments can help relieve some symptoms and slow down the progression of the disease. Dr. Tay discussed medications such as Rivastigmine, Donepezil, and Memantine. For vascular dementia, addressing risk factors like optimizing blood pressure, glucose, and cholesterol levels, using blood thinners, quitting smoking, losing weight, and exercising are crucial. Additionally, drugs for depression or anxiety, sleeping tablets, or antipsychotics can be prescribed.

Reducing the Risk of Dementia

To reduce the risk of developing dementia, Dr. Tay recommended:

1. Staying physically active
2. Eating healthily
3. Exercising the mind
4. Being socially active
5. Quitting smoking
6. Reducing alcohol intake
7. Managing diabetes, high blood pressure, high cholesterol, and obesity
8. Treating depression and anxiety early
   
   
   

   
   Dr. Tay graciously presented a gift to Angie, the participant of the quiz 2.
   
   

   
       Dr. Tay graciously presented a gift to Dora Chong, the participant of the quiz 3.

      Attentively listening to Dr. Tay

Conclusion

Dr. Tay concluded the talk by emphasizing that dementia is common in older people but not a natural part of aging. Early symptoms are often overlooked, making early diagnosis crucial for effective treatment and improved quality of life. She encouraged the audience to recognize early symptoms and show love and care instead of blame.

We are deeply grateful for Dr. Tay's insightful talk and the thoughtful goodie bags she specially packed for the attendees. This session was a valuable step towards raising awareness and understanding of dementia within our community.

Light the Way:
A Poem to Raise Awareness of Dementia

In the quiet of our hearts,

A challenge we must face,

A journey through the shadows,

To bring light to every place.

A mind once clear and vibrant,

Now lost within a maze,

Yet with our love and kindness,

We can brighten all their days.

Let us join our hands together,

In compassion and in care,

For every soul affected,

Deserves our love to share.

Raise your voice and spread the word,

Let awareness be our guide,

For understanding brings us closer,

To the ones who feel inside.

Keep them active, keep them bright,

Engage their minds each day,

For every little effort,  

Can help in every way.

Healthy food and exercise,

A heart that’s full of cheer,

Can stave off the encroaching fog,

And keep our loved ones near.

Let’s build a strong community,

With empathy and grace,

Creating spaces filled with joy,

Where memories find their place.

Support each other through the storm,

With patience, love, and care,

For though the path is challenging,

Together, we can bear.

Educate and advocate,

For treatments and for aid,

Invest in research, find a cure,

Let none feel afraid.

For shadows may obscure the mind,

And memories may wane,

But love’s enduring beacon,

Will always light the lane.

Join the fight, stand with us,

To curb this silent foe,

For every act of kindness,

Helps the light of hope to grow.

So let us all remember,

In every word and deed,

To show our care and kindness,

To those in greatest need.

Together we can conquer,

With hearts both brave and true,

The battle against this darkness,

With love that will renew.

On behalf of the organizing committee and all the attendees, we would like to extend our heartfelt gratitude to all the contributors, sponsors, and participants who made the event "Can You Find My Grandfather? He Is Missing: Everything You Need to Know About Dementia" a resounding success. Your generous support, valuable insights, and active engagement have created a precious moment of joy and happiness that will be remembered for years to come.

We are particularly thankful to Dr. Tay Hui Sian, our esteemed speaker, for sharing her expertise and raising awareness about the critical issue of dementia. Her insights have enlightened us about the alarming rise of dementia cases in Malaysia and the importance of early diagnosis and effective management.

A special note of appreciation goes to Pastor Danny for bestowing a gift of appreciation upon Dr. Tay, honoring her with gratitude and recognition for her invaluable contributions.

We also acknowledge the Wesley Methodist Church, Tengkera, Melaka, for providing a welcoming venue for our event. The church's support and hospitality have been instrumental in creating a conducive environment for learning and sharing.

Our sincere thanks go to the photographers and videographers, especially Brother Kevin Chua & Brother Tan, for capturing the essence of the event with their great photography & video filming skills. Brother Kevin & Tan's talent and dedication have ensured that the memories of this event will be preserved for all to cherish.

Lastly, we express our deepest appreciation to all the sponsors and contributors who believed in the cause and supported us with their generosity. Your contributions have not only made the event possible but have also contributed to the broader mission of raising awareness about dementia and supporting those affected by it.

Together, we have taken a significant step towards understanding and addressing the challenges of dementia. Let us continue to support one another and work towards a future where everyone affected by dementia receives the care and support they deserve.

Thank you once again for your support and participation.

Celebrating She Matters: A Tea with World Vision's President

Last Saturday, 6^th July, 2024, 3pm, we were privileged to attend a significant event hosted by World Vision Malaysia, held at the beautiful St Giles Gardens Hotel in Mid Valley City. The event, aptly named "She Matters," focused on upholding the rights of girls worldwide, ensuring they live lives free of fear and with bright futures ahead.

World Vision International President & CEO, Mr. Andrew Morley giving his opening speech

We were honored to be invited for afternoon tea with Mr. Andrew Morley, the President of World Vision International. His presence was a testament to the importance of this cause and the global commitment to advocating for the rights of girls.

Highlighting a Special Young Advocate

One of the highlights of the event was the introduction of Yaru, a remarkable 17-year-old from Cambodia. Despite her young age, Yaru has become a vocal advocate for children's rights in her community. Her story of courage and determination was both inspiring and moving, showcasing the profound impact that awareness and advocacy can have on empowering young girls. Yaru's journey from a girl in Cambodia to an influential speaker underscores the potential within every girl to become a leader and change-maker.

Angel Cheang and Terry Yong

Voices of Influence and Inspiration

The event also featured a compelling address by Mr. Andrew Morley, who shared insights on the global initiatives and successes of World Vision in supporting girls' rights. His speech emphasized the importance of collective action and the need to support and uplift girls in every corner of the world.

                                   Sponsor a child

Moderating the event was Ms. Freda Liu, a renowned business broadcast journalist and child sponsor. Ms. Liu shared her personal experiences as a child sponsor, providing a heartfelt perspective on the profound difference sponsorship can make in the lives of children. Her stories highlighted the transformative power of support and the ripple effect it creates in communities.

      From Left: Christina, Angie, Angel, Leanne and Roseline Sik 

A Call to Action

"She Matters" was more than just an event; it was a call to action for all attendees to join the mission of advocating for girls' rights. The discussions and presentations underscored the urgent need to create safe environments where girls can thrive without fear. By investing in their education, health, and well-being, we pave the way for a future where every girl can achieve her full potential.

                                             Roseline Sik and Angie Ng

Looking Forward

As we reflected on the day's events, we were reminded of the importance of such gatherings in raising awareness and fostering a global community committed to change. The stories shared, the connections made, and the collective resolve to make a difference left a lasting impact on all who attended.

    Staffs Meeting

We extend our gratitude to World Vision Malaysia for hosting this meaningful event and to all the speakers and participants for their contributions. Together, we can continue to uphold the rights of girls worldwide and ensure they live lives filled with hope, opportunity, and freedom from fear.

We look forward to future events and initiatives that continue to shine a light on these crucial issues. Let us all be champions for girls’ rights and advocates for a world where every girl matters.

She Matters

In every heart, a seed of light,

A girl with dreams that take their flight.

From distant lands where shadows loom,

Her spirit blooms, dispelling gloom.

She matters, like the morning sun,

Her strength and hope, for everyone.

From Cambodia to every shore,

Her voice will rise, her spirit soar.

In places where the nights are long,

Her courage sings a steadfast song.

For every child with eyes so bright,

She stands for love, she stands for right.

No more in fear, no more in pain,

She breaks the chains, she breaks the chain.

With purity and truth, she fights,

For every girl to claim her rights.

Her future shines, a beacon clear,

Her path to walk, without a fear.

From fields to classrooms, dreams unfold,

Her story in each heart retold.

She matters, let the world proclaim,

Her name, her voice, a living flame.

In every heart, let justice ring,

For her, let every voice now sing.

From every corner, near and far,

She’s more than just a rising star.

She’s hope, she’s strength, she’s future bright,

A warrior for the world’s delight.

So let us stand, with hearts entwined,

For every girl, a voice aligned.

Together, let us boldly state,

She matters, and her dreams are great.

In unity, our pledge we give,

To fight for her, so she may live.

A life of freedom, joy, and grace,

Where every girl can find her place.

She matters, yes, the world must see,

Her right to live, her right to be.

For every girl, in every land,

We stand as one, we take her hand.

Her future shines, because we care,

In every heart, a dream to share.

For she matters, this truth we hold,

In every girl, a story bold.

Acknowledgement

We extend our heartfelt thanks to World Vision Malaysia for hosting such a meaningful event, "She Matters." The sumptuous tea provided a perfect setting for a memorable and impactful afternoon.

A special thank you to all the sponsors who made this event possible with their generous support. We are deeply grateful to all the contributors who captured the event's essence through their wonderful pictures, with particular appreciation to Angel Cheang for her exceptional photography. Your efforts have beautifully documented this significant gathering, helping to spread the message that every girl matters.

Celebrating Unity and Tradition: The Duan Wu Festival and Bak Zhong Distribution Campaign 2024

On Sunday, June 2nd, 2024, the Taman Bukit Community Hall, Melaka, buzzed with activity and excitement as community members gathered for the annual Duan Wu Festival and Bak Chang Distribution Campaign, celebrating the Duan Wu Festival 2024. Organized by YB Kerk Ayer Keroh, this event exemplified the spirit of togetherness and cultural heritage.

A Morning of Joyful Collaboration

Starting as early as 7:30 am, the community came together to prepare 1,500 Bak Zhong (also known as Zongzi) for distribution. The scene was a heartwarming display of teamwork and dedication, with volunteers of all ages participating in the preparation process. By 11:00 am, all the Bak Zhong were cooked and ready to be served to the community.

The event not only provided delicious food but also fostered a sense of unity and shared purpose. It was a joyous occasion that highlighted the importance of working together in peace and harmony.

A Glimpse into the History of Duan Wu Festival

The Duan Wu Festival, also known as the Dragon Boat Festival, has a rich history that dates back over 2,000 years. It commemorates the life and death of the famous Chinese scholar Qu Yuan, who lived during the Warring States period. Qu Yuan was a loyal minister who, in despair over the corruption of his government, drowned himself in the Miluo River. The local people, in an attempt to save him or at least recover his body, raced out in their boats and threw rice dumplings into the river to prevent fish from eating his body. This act of remembrance evolved into the Dragon Boat Festival and the tradition of making and eating Bak Zhong.

The Significance of the Duan Wu Festival

The Duan Wu Festival, celebrated on the 5th day of the 5th month of the lunar calendar, is a time to honor Qu Yuan's spirit and celebrate Chinese cultural heritage. The festival is marked by dragon boat races, the eating of Bak Zhong, and various other festivities. It serves as a reminder of loyalty, sacrifice, and the enduring spirit of the community.

Tips for Making Perfect Bak Zhong

Making Bak Zhong is an art that requires patience and skill. Here are a few tips for those who wish to try their hand at this traditional delicacy:

1. Choose the Right Ingredients: Use glutinous rice, fresh bamboo leaves, and high-quality fillings such as pork, mushrooms, chestnuts, and salted egg yolks.
2. Preparation of Bamboo Leaves: Soak the bamboo leaves overnight to soften them, and then boil them for a few minutes to ensure they are pliable and clean.
3. Seasoning the Rice: Marinate the glutinous rice with soy sauce, oyster sauce, and other seasonings for enhanced flavor.
4. Assembling the Bak Zhong: Carefully wrap the marinated rice and fillings in the bamboo leaves, ensuring they are tightly secured to prevent leakage during cooking.
5. Cooking: Boil the wrapped Bak Zhong for several hours until fully cooked. The time may vary depending on the size and filling.

A Day of Celebration and Gratitude

The Bak Zhong Distribution Campaign was more than just a culinary event; it was a celebration of community spirit and cultural pride. We were honored to have a photography session with YB Kerk Ayer Keroh, YB Khoo, and representatives from various associations and donors. Their presence and contributions were greatly appreciated, making the event a resounding success.

As we reflect on this wonderful day, we are reminded of the joy and fulfillment that comes from working together in peace and harmony. Let us continue to celebrate our traditions and strengthen our community bonds in the years to come.

Ode to the Dragon Boat Festival

In the heart of summer's bloom,

When rivers gleam under the moon,

We gather to remember and to honor,

The legacy of Qu Yuan, a scholar.

Bamboo leaves in gentle hands,

Glutinous rice from fertile lands,

Wrapped with care, a family’s treasure,

Each Bak Zhong a token of pleasure.

Drums echo on the water's breast,

As dragon boats race with zest,

Oars slicing through the morning mist,

In a rhythmic dance, a joyous twist.

Colors bright, and spirits high,

Kites soaring in the sky,

The scent of incense, the sound of cheer,

Tradition's whisper, loud and clear.

A tale of loyalty and sorrow told,

In legends ancient and bold,

Yet in the present, it lives anew,

In every heart that beats true.

Families gather, hand in hand,

Together they work, together they stand,

In peace and joy, they find their way,

Celebrating this sacred day.

To the Dragon Boat Festival, we raise a toast,

To the culture and history we love the most,

In each Bak Zhong, a story we hold,

Of timeless values, brave and bold.

May this festival bring us close,

In bonds of love, we cherish most,

Rich in culture, steeped in grace,

In every heart, may it find its place.

Rediscovering the Melaka National Library: A Haven for Health and Knowledge

After a long hiatus of about 20 years, last Monday, 20th May, my friend Roseline and I had the pleasure of revisiting the Melaka National Library. The experience was not only nostalgic but also a delightful surprise. We were greeted by cheerful and helpful front desk officers, whose warmth set a positive tone for our visit. The library itself has undergone a significant transformation, boasting a bright, uplifting ambiance and exquisite decor.

One of the most remarkable additions to the library is the new wing dedicated to digital resources. This modern section is complemented by a cozy cafe that offers delicious local food and both hot and cold beverages, providing a perfect spot for relaxation and social interaction. The ground floor of the library is thoughtfully designed, with a customer lounge on the left and a vibrant children’s library on the right. On the first floor, the left side houses a gym with a game area and ping pong tables, while the right side is dedicated to the adult book borrowing room.

The Melaka National Library is more than just a place to borrow books; it is a sanctuary that promotes both physical and mental well-being. In today’s fast-paced world, where stress from work and home can take a toll on our health, the library offers a holistic approach to curbing stress and promoting a healthier lifestyle. This article aims to encourage the cultivation of an active, healthy lifestyle and the development of reading habits among individuals of all ages.

Cultivating an Active Lifestyle

The inclusion of a gym and game area within the library premises is a testament to the library’s commitment to promoting physical health. Regular physical activity is crucial for maintaining a healthy body and mind. Engaging in physical exercises such as those offered at the gym can help reduce stress, improve mood, and boost overall energy levels. The presence of ping pong tables adds an element of fun and competition, encouraging social interaction and mental agility.

Roseline enjoying her Icy Chocolate drink

1. Stress Reduction through Physical Activity:

Regular exercise is one of the most effective ways to combat stress. Physical activity stimulates the production of endorphins, which are chemicals in the brain that act as natural painkillers and mood elevators. Exercising at the library’s gym or playing ping pong can provide a much-needed break from the daily grind, allowing individuals to unwind and rejuvenate.

2. Building a Community:

The game area and gym provide a communal space where people can connect and build relationships. Social interactions during physical activities can enhance one’s sense of belonging and community, which is essential for mental well-being. Engaging in group exercises or friendly matches can foster camaraderie and support networks, making the library a hub for both physical and social activities.

3. Enhancing Cognitive Function:

Physical activities are not just beneficial for the body but also for the brain. Studies have shown that regular exercise can improve cognitive function, enhance memory, and protect against cognitive decline. The library’s holistic approach to health, incorporating both mental and physical activities, makes it an ideal place for nurturing overall well-being.

Encouraging Reading Habits

The Melaka National Library’s inviting atmosphere and comprehensive facilities make it an excellent place to foster a love for reading. Reading has numerous benefits, from improving knowledge and empathy to reducing stress and enhancing mental acuity. The library’s diverse collection of books, along with its digital resources, caters to readers of all ages and interests.

1. Mental Stimulation and Stress Reduction:

Reading is a powerful tool for mental stimulation and stress reduction. Immersing oneself in a good book can provide an escape from the pressures of daily life, allowing the mind to relax and unwind. The library’s quiet and serene environment is conducive to focused reading and reflection, making it an ideal place to develop a reading habit.

2. Promoting Lifelong Learning:

The library’s extensive collection of books and digital resources supports lifelong learning. Whether it’s exploring new topics, enhancing professional skills, or indulging in fictional worlds, reading can open up a world of knowledge and possibilities. The adult book borrowing room is a treasure trove of information, encouraging continuous education and personal growth.

3. Inspiring Young Readers:

The dedicated children’s library is a vibrant and engaging space designed to inspire young readers. Cultivating a love for reading at a young age can have lasting benefits, including improved language skills, creativity, and academic performance. Storytelling sessions, interactive activities, and a diverse collection of children’s books make the library an exciting place for young minds to explore and learn.

4. Digital Literacy:

In today’s digital age, the ability to navigate digital resources is essential. The library’s new digital wing provides access to e-books, online journals, and other digital media, promoting digital literacy. This resource is invaluable for both academic and personal pursuits, ensuring that readers are well-equipped for the demands of the modern world.

Balancing Physical and Mental Well-being

The Melaka National Library’s integrated approach to promoting both physical and mental well-being sets it apart as a unique community resource. By offering facilities that cater to physical health, such as the gym and game area, alongside extensive reading and digital resources, the library addresses the holistic needs of its patrons. This balanced approach is crucial for managing the stresses of daily life and maintaining overall health.

Creating a Habit of Regular Library Visits

Incorporating regular visits to the library into one’s routine can significantly enhance quality of life. Here are some tips to make the most of the library’s offerings:

1. Schedule Regular Visits:

Set aside specific times each week for library visits. Whether it’s for a workout session at the gym, a game of ping pong, or a quiet reading session, regular visits can help establish a healthy routine.

2. Explore Different Sections:

Take advantage of the diverse facilities offered by the library. Explore different sections, from the digital wing and cafe to the children’s library and adult book borrowing room. Each visit can offer a new and enriching experience.

3. Participate in Library Events:

Keep an eye on the library’s event calendar for workshops, storytelling sessions, and other activities. Participating in these events can provide opportunities for learning, socializing, and personal growth.

4. Encourage Family Visits:

Make library visits a family affair. Encourage children to explore the children’s library, engage in activities, and develop a love for reading. Family visits can foster a culture of learning and health within the household.

In conclusion, the Melaka National Library is more than just a repository of books; it is a vibrant community hub that promotes a healthy, balanced lifestyle. By encouraging physical activity and fostering a love for reading, the library plays a crucial role in enhancing the well-being of its patrons. Whether you are looking to de-stress, learn something new, or simply enjoy a good book, the library offers a welcoming and enriching environment for all. Make it a part of your routine, and experience the transformative power of this wonderful institution

A Mother's Love: Witnessing the Tender Bond of Owls in the Heart of Singapore City

Last Tuesday, 14th May, 2024, in the heart of Singapore City, amidst the towering skyscrapers and bustling streets, a remarkable scene unfolds that captures the essence of maternal love in its purest form. High atop an enormous tree in Tanjung Bungah, a mother owl diligently tends to her two little owlets, nurturing them with unwavering devotion and care. As the press and the community gather around the nest, cameras in hand, they are drawn into a heartwarming spectacle of love and tenderness, especially poignant as Mother's Day approaches.

The sight of the mother owl feeding her young and teaching them to fly amidst the urban landscae serves as a poignant reminder of the enduring power of maternal love, even in the most unexpected of places. The babies owl, with their fluffy feathers and wide eyes, eagerly flap their wings and clumsily climb the tree trunk, guided by the watchful gaze of their doting mother.

As onlookers crane their necks and zoom in with their cameras, each snap capturing a fleeting moment frozen in time, they are transported into the intimate world of the owl family. The mother owl, with her gentle demeanor and unwavering patience, tenderly encourages her young to spread their wings and explore the world around them. Her actions speak volumes about the sacrifices and selflessness inherent in the journey of motherhood, as she dedicates herself wholeheartedly to the well-being of her offspring.

For centuries, owls have symbolized wisdom, intuition, and protection, embodying the timeless wisdom of motherhood. As the mother owl guides her young through their first flights and teaches them the ways of the world, she imparts invaluable lessons about resilience, perseverance, and the importance of family bonds. In her tireless efforts to nurture and protect her babies, she exemplifies the profound depth of a mother's love, a love that knows no bounds and transcends all barriers.

The scene unfolding in Tanjung Bungah serves as a powerful reminder of the universal nature of motherhood, a bond that transcends species, cultures, and boundaries. Whether human or animal, mothers share a common thread of unconditional love and unwavering devotion to their children. As Mother's Day approaches, the sight of the mother owl and her brood offers a poignant reflection on the role of mothers in our lives and the profound impact they have on shaping who we are.

As the sun begins to set on the city skyline, casting a golden glow over the urban landscape, the mother owl continues to watch over her young with steadfast determination and unwavering love. And as the community gathers to bear witness to this touching moment, they are reminded of the immeasurable value of a mother's touch, a mother's embrace, and a mother's unwavering support.

In the flurry of daily life, it is easy to overlook the countless sacrifices and acts of love that mothers bestow upon us. Yet, as we witness the tender moments between the mother owl and her babies, we are reminded of the immeasurable value of a mother's love, a love that knows no bounds and endures for all eternity.

In the heart of Singapore City, amidst the bustling streets and urban landscape, a mother owl tends to her young with quiet dignity and grace. And as the community gathers to bear witness to this touching moment, they are reminded of the profound beauty and power of a mother's love, a love that knows no bounds and endures for all eternity.

Happy Mother’s Day..!

Happy Mother's Day to all mothers and to those who are expecting to become mothers soon. Congratulations and gratitude for your unconditional love and the incredible sacrifices you make each day. Your love knows no bounds and your strength knows no limits. May your day be filled with joy, love, and appreciation for all that you do. You are truly appreciated and cherished beyond words.

A Mother's Love: The Tender Wings of the Owl

In the heart of the bustling city's glow,
Amidst the towering buildings' flow,
A tender scene unfolds, serene and bright,
A mother owl, her love alight.

With feathers soft and eyes so wise,
She tends to her young, under moonlit skies,
Her wings outstretched, a sheltering embrace,
Guiding her owlets with gentle grace.
I
n the midst of urban hustle and rush,
Her love for her young, a sacred hush,
Teaching them to fly, to climb, to soar,
A mother's love, an endless store.  

With every flap, with every climb,
She whispers love, in rhythm and rhyme,
For in her heart, a love profound,
A bond unbroken, forever bound. 

As cameras click and crowds draw near,
Her love shines bright, crystal clear,
A testament to the depths within,
A mother's love, a sacred hymn. 

So let us pause, in awe and wonder,
At this scene, a love so tender,
For in the heart of the city's sprawl,
A mother's love, the greatest of all.

Acknowledgement

We extend our heartfelt gratitude for the wonderful video capturing the tender moment of a mother owl feeding her young. This video is especially poignant during this week of Mother’s Day, as it beautifully showcases the unconditional love and care that a mother provides. Thank you for sharing this amazing and touching moment with us, reminding us all of the incredible bond between a mother and her children.

A Gracious Celebration: Embracing the Spirit of Eid al-Fitr with Joy and Abundance

 

As the radiant moonlight cast its gentle glow upon the earth, illuminating the night with its celestial beauty, a sense of anticipation and excitement filled the air. It was a night of celebration, a night of gratitude and joy, as we gathered together to mark the end of Ramadan and embrace the spirit of Eid al-Fitr, also known as Hari Raya Aidilfitri or Hari Raya Puasa in Malay or Bahasa Malaysia.

               Magdelene, Chin Mei, Christine, Angie and Sylvia

After thirty days of fasting and spiritual reflection, Muslims around the world come together to celebrate Eid al-Fitr, a festive occasion that symbolizes the breaking of the fast and the renewal of faith. It is a time for family and community, for feasting and fellowship, as we rejoice in the blessings of the past month and look forward to the journey ahead.

We were honored to be invited to attend the Chief Minister Aidilfitri Open house at his residence at Seri Bendahara, Ayer Keroh, at 7 pm. Accompanied by friends Christine Ho, Magdeline Leong, Sylvia Ong, and Sis Chin Mei, we embarked on a journey of celebration and camaraderie, eager to partake in the festivities that awaited us.

Upon arrival, we were greeted with warm smiles and heartfelt welcomes, as the spirit of Riang Ria Raya 2024 permeated the atmosphere. The Chief Minister's residence was adorned with vibrant decorations and colorful lights, setting the stage for an evening filled with joy and merriment.

       Satay and Ketupat

As we stepped into the grand open garden, we were immediately greeted by the tantalizing aroma of exquisite dishes that lined the buffet tables. English mutton steak, beef rendang, ketupat, satay chicken and beef – a feast fit for royalty awaited us, showcasing the rich and diverse culinary traditions of Malaysia.

           Local Cakes and desserts

The array of drinks available was equally impressive, offering something for every palate and preference. From hot coffee and hot tea to icy lemonade and icy green matcha, the options were endless, providing refreshing respite from the warm evening breeze.

But perhaps the most enticing sight of all was the dessert spread, a veritable paradise of sweet delights that beckoned to us with irresistible allure. Ice cream, cendol, and an assortment of traditional Malay desserts adorned the dessert table, tempting us with their decadent flavors and irresistible charm.

As we indulged in the culinary delights before us, laughter and conversation filled the air, as friends old and new came together to share in the joy of the occasion. It was a time of bonding and camaraderie, as we celebrated the bonds of friendship and the spirit of unity that brings us together as a community.

Throughout the evening, traditional Malay music filled the air, adding to the festive ambiance and inspiring guests to dance and celebrate with abandon. The sounds of laughter and music echoed through the air, a joyful symphony of celebration that reverberated into the night.

As the evening drew to a close, and the moon hung low in the sky, we gathered together once more to offer prayers of gratitude and thanksgiving for the blessings of the past month. It was a moment of reflection and reverence, as we expressed our gratitude for the opportunity to come together in fellowship and celebration.

As we bid farewell and made our way home, our hearts were full of gratitude and joy, knowing that we had been part of something truly special. The spirit of Eid al-Fitr had filled our hearts with warmth and love, reminding us of the beauty of community, the richness of tradition, and the boundless blessings that surround us each day.

As we look ahead to the journey that lies before us, may the spirit of Eid al-Fitr continue to inspire us, guiding us with its light and filling our hearts with hope and joy. Eid Mubarak to all, and may the blessings of this sacred occasion be with you always.

    30th April, At YB Kerk Aidilfitri Open House Taman Jati Bola Keranjang Field, from left to right: Angie, Molly, Felicia and Roseline.

We were deeply honored and grateful for the opportunity to celebrate the 2024 Aidilfitri Open House and gathering at MITC. It was a grand occasion made even more special by the presence of the esteemed Prime Minister Anwar Ibrahim, the honorable Yang di-Pertua Negeri Melaka (the Governor), the Chief Minister, the MP of Kota Melaka YB Seah, YB Khoo, and other distinguished representatives, including the 30th April, 2024, Open Aidilfitri of Ayer Keroh YB Kerk. We extend our heartfelt thanks to all who attended and contributed to the joyous atmosphere and delightful feast.

Riang Ria Raya 2024

Tiba saatnya Raya kembali,

Di sinilah riangnya berlabuh.

Kasih dan sayang bersemi di hati,

Menyinari hari dengan cahaya yang tulus.

 

Suasana syahdu, mesra berjalin,

Di setiap rumah, ceria bergema.

Wajah-wajah berseri-seri,

Berkongsi rasa gembira di sepanjang raya.

 

Pelbagai hidangan menggoda selera,

Di meja berpuluh, penuh berwarna.

Kuih-muih tradisi disajikan dengan penuh kasih,

Menjadi kenangan manis di setiap sudut jiwa.

 

Riang Ria Raya, oh tatkala indah,

Di dalam ziarah, saling bermaafan.

Kembali fitrah, bersama harmoni,

Membawa kedamaian di setiap detik berlalu.

 

Inilah Raya, tanda kasih dan ikatan,

Memperkukuh silaturahim yang suci.

Semoga kegembiraan ini kekal abadi,

Dalam ingatan, di setiap tahun yang berlalu.

"Joyous Eid Celebration 2024"

The time has come for Eid to return,
Here is where joy finds its anchor.
Love and affection bloom in the heart,
Illuminating the day with sincere light.

A serene atmosphere, intimate connections,
In every home, cheer resonates.
Faces aglow with radiance,
Sharing joyful feelings throughout the celebration.

A variety of tempting dishes,
On tables abound, full of color.
Traditional sweets served with love,
Becoming sweet memories in every corner of the soul.

Riang Ria Raya, oh how beautiful,
During visits, forgiving one another.
Returning to fitrah, in harmony,
Bringing peace with every passing moment.

This is Eid, a symbol of love and connection,
Strengthening sacred bonds of kinship.
May this happiness endure eternally,
In memory, in every passing year."